Girl killed herself, after her dad posted this to her wall? No, a new spin on a Facebook scam

Filed Under: Facebook, Social networks, Spam

Girl killed herself after her dad posted this to her wall?NOTE: This article was first posted in September 2010, but continues to receive a high amount of traffic as malicious scammers continue to use the story of a girl killing herself to spread their campaigns across Facebook. The scams use a variety of techniques and variations of the disguises to maximise their chances of tricking people into taking surveys or handing over personal information.

Be sure to join the Sophos group on Facebook to learn about the many different scams which are spreading, and share warnings with your online friends.

And now back to the original article from September 2010..

For a few days we've been monitoring a new spin on a Facebook scam, that claims a girl killed herself on Christmas Eve after her dad posted a message on her wall. Before we've documented both the related hoax warnings spread on Facebook, as well as scam pages that popped up trying to trick users into "liking" them, and the truth about the real woman's death that has been exploited by heartless cybercriminals.

The latest scam is spreading virally, tricking users into liking pages which claim to offer you access to the "horrific wall post" that allegedly made a girl kill herself on Christmas Eve.

Girl killed herself, after her dad posted this to her wall

Girl killed herself, after her dad posted This to her Wall

If you click on the link then you are taken to a Facebook page which says you have to like it in order to view the father's alleged message. In some cases, the page will use clickjacking techniques to trick you into sharing the page as a status update with your online friends. In others it will trick you into granting permission for a third-party application to post to your Facebook wall. But the end result is the same - you'll be directed to a webpage which asks you to complete a survey.

And that's what makes money for the scammers who create these pages.

Girl killed herself, Facebook page

So all that needs to be done is for Facebook to clean up the offending pages, educate their users about these types of scams, and police the community better in future to stop yet more scams popping up.

A quick search on Facebook found these "girl killed herself" pages popping up like mushrooms on the site.

Girl killed herself, after her dad posted this to her wall Facebook pages

Come on Facebook, can't you get a handle on this?

If you believe you may have been hit by this attack, view the recent activity on your news feed and delete entries related to the above links. Furthermore, you should view your profile, click on your Info tab and remove any of the pages from your "Likes and interests" section.

You should also check which third party applications you have allowed to access your profile, and revoke the rights of anything suspicious via Account/ Privacy Settings/ Applications and Websites. If you don't do this, you could be hit time and time again..

Here's a YouTube video where I show you how to clean-up your Facebook account:

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If you want to learn more about security threats on the social network and elsewhere on the internet, join the Sophos Facebook page.

You could also do a lot worse than check out our best practices for better privacy and security on Facebook guide.

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140 Responses to Girl killed herself, after her dad posted this to her wall? No, a new spin on a Facebook scam

  1. Sandy says:

    so i clicked on that add a friend of mine had posted it on or facebook does that mean im in danger ?

    • Hi Sandy. If you believe you may have been hit by this attack, view the recent activity on your news feed and delete entries related to the dodgy links.

      Furthermore, you should view your profile, click on your Info tab and remove any of the related pages from your "Likes and interests" section. You may have to click on "Show other pages" to see them.

      In other words - Profile -> Info -> Click edit in "likes and interests" -> Click "show other pages" - > Now you can click "remove" on the pages that you don't want to like anymore.

    • heather says:

      i click on it but nothing came up but a white screen but the internet bar was still there (address bar thing)

    • Lexi says:

      i clicked on it to.

    • carlos says:

      you may not be in danger, but clicking on those ads scamers make money is like google AdSense where their get paid for people clicking on ads like on their page or blog

    • Yeshi Lhamo says:

      Same here , but i think this is all just hoey , cuz if it was real , why would the facebook creator leave it like tht , wouldnt it cause harm to his reputation , Think about it

  2. Sara says:

    Hi Graham, I also clicked on this dodgy link that claims "a girl killed herself on Christmas Eve after her dad posted a message on her wall" but I just did what you told above in reply to Sandy's comment. I just want to know, am I safe now? does this scam 'HACK' your account, send virus, or what? pls do reply. thanks

    • Hey Sara. If you followed my advice above about how to clean-up the attack (which means that you won't be passing it onto any other Facebook users) then you should be safe.

      The primary aim of this attack appears to have been to drive traffic to a revenue-generating survey.

      However, if you're at all concerned - there's no harm in changing your Facebook password. Remember never to make it the same as the password on any other website you access.

  3. steph says:

    My mom clicked the link and it posted to her profile, now she is unable to delete it! What should she do?

    • If you have messages on your wall that you want to remove, go to your profile's wall and hover your mouse over the message. You should see an 'X" next to each entry - clicking on that X removes it from your wall.

      In addition, view your profile, click on your Info tab and remove any of the related pages from your "Likes and interests" section. You may have to click on "Show other pages" to see them.

      In other words - Profile -> Info -> Click edit in "likes and interests" -> Click "show other pages" - > Now you can click "remove" on the pages that you don't want to like anymore.

  4. Don't click on the link, hoax. virus

  5. Teresa says:

    I did what you said about removing it from Likes and Interests, but the page still shows under Movies. How do I remove it from there?

    • if you see it listed under "Movies", double-click on the name in the Movies box and you should see the word "Remove" appear on the right hand side.

      Don't you love how consistent Facebook's user interface is? Ahem..

      • Teresa says:

        Took some doing, but that finally worked! It wasn't even listed as a movie, but in the movie category below the "list" that is supposed to show. It's gone now, though! Thanks for the help!

  6. mikyla says:

    i almost clicked itt..glad i didnt

  7. s.zaf says:

    hi graham i am having a slight problem. ive done evreything that u have said in the previous comment such as removing from the profile page and like and interests page etc so thats done.

    my main concern is on the left hand side of the page there is a bookmark section where all the bookmarks are placed such as application, photos, groups etc in that section the link is still there and there is nothing that i can do to remove it it says hide link or see hidden and there is nothing that it says remove. When i click on the X it says hide instead of remove.

    As i said ive done evreything i even went into my application setting and i couldnt find it so how do i remove?? Pleae let me know as soon as you can because i really want to remove that section.

    thank you

    • Sounds like you haven't properly revoked the application's rights to access your profile.

      Go to Account /Privacy Settings

      Then click on "Edit your settings" under "Applications and Websites" in the bottom left hand corner.

      See "Applications you use"? Click on "Edit settings" next to that and revoke rights of any rogue applications.

      Yes, Facebook could have probably made this easier to describe or simpler to navigate to...

  8. heather says:

    oops wrong thing i meant to put here i click it too but nothing came up but white and the address bar was still there and stuff

  9. Thandeka says:

    hey Graham, I've removed it form the "likes and interests" but i cant remove it from my wall. when i click on the X mark to remove, it says "
    Failed to hide minifeed story". What now?

  10. Charlotte says:

    HUH WHOA R U SERIOUS?! i opened the "GIRL KILLED HERSELF BC HER FATHER POSTED THIS!" and i did that survey! does this mean my computer is at risk 4 a virus or something?!?! and y cant facebook just delete all that kind of stuff from comin on here 2 begin with? PLZ TELL ME IF MY COMPUTER IS GOING 2 HAVE A VIRUS NOW?!?!?!?! and this site isnt a scam is it????

    • No, your *computer* isn't at risk of a virus if you went through the survey process but your Facebook profile may well have passed on the "Girl killed herself" link to your online friends and Facebook pals - which ultimately might lead to them taking the survey too.

      And the scammers benefit (by earning a commission) every time someone takes one of their surveys.

      Furthermore, a rogue application might now have access to your Facebook profile, which means they could gather other information about you or post more messages to your wall.

  11. This needs to be posted so people will know its a scam!

  12. Jake says:

    these are obvious scams...you have to be a retard to fall for this and click "like"...hahaha...but it takes a dumbass to click "like" and then do the survey...LMAO!!

    • shay smith says:

      people really thought that was something serious thats why people clicked on the link.. it has nothing to do with being stupid. people really wanted to know if something like that really did happen. i think that you should choose your words carefully before you decide to put something where people can read it.

      • Ashleigh says:

        I agree, you do have to be a bit gullible to not realise this stuff is a scam. If you want to read news and current affairs, go to a news website. And before you click on any of these links, a simple google search will show them as a hoax. However, I remain unsurprised at the intense stupidity of people on facebook.

      • But seriously ... Only freaks wants to see people killing themself.. "This guy killed himself in the webcam! Check it now! Sadly!" I see lot of people "likes" it... or this "Father catches daughter on her webcam!" if people really are such idiots wanna see this stuffs then they just deserve it...
        Or just go to a damn porrn site or some youtube sh*t, but if they do it on Facebook then they just deserve it...

        • Sara says:

          I can bet that most of you calling this "an obvious scam" have clicked on the link, at least once, to figure out that it was a hoax...you basically just called yourselves an idiot or stupid or a moron...there are more serious matters in the world...get over yourselves...they may be ignorant but you are just dumb!

  13. Drew says:

    Thanks Jake...

    This is why stupid people shouldn't own a computer. Too many people have viruses and keep people like my self working because they do stupid stuff.

    If people understood things like scams over the internet like they do a bank robbery or loaning their credit card to a friend I would be out of a job.

    • Koshita says:

      then shouldn't u be happy about those people having computers?

      • lisa says:

        I was going to say the samething....I would necessarily call these people stupid....you can't be an expert in everything...these "stupid people" could likely find an area in which you are also "stupid" in.

        • Lillian says:

          Liked that one Lisa.. what a smart-A** ... I cant stand people like that. He should be gratful he has a Job instead of being nasty and calling people stupid. I think he is for not knowing that Gee.. he has a job in these hard times

        • Sara says:

          Drew---I suggest next time you read through your post...thoroughly...you just made yourself sound like more of an idiot than any of those people you were just ripping on...you should "thank your lucky stars" people cannot avoid computer viruses...otherwise, I can almost guarantee, you wouldn't have a job...anywhere...such a MORON!

  14. abc123 says:

    thankyou graham saved my ass!

  15. Amber E says:

    Thanks Graham you helped me so much, I wasn't sure either to click it or google it, i was so curious though!

  16. Stephanie says:

    While I believe that Facebook should clean these sites up but at the same time I also believe people should think about those things before clicking on them. It's their responsibility as well.

  17. vanessa says:

    how about if you clicked the linked but exited before loading?? will anything happen to my account???

  18. howard joyosa says:

    how can i remove it

  19. Eliza says:

    why did she kill her self? what did the dad write?

  20. noe says:

    Just a question: don't you find it strange that a group ask you to "like it" for you to see the content, when all the groups have opened information even before liking it?
    Then... why do you click?

    • Ruthie says:

      You do it a) so it shows on your profile as a reflection of your personality and interests, and b) so when that group or page posts an update, it shows in your feed and you don't have to check the page repeatedly. It's like an RSS feed.

    • Non-gullible says:

      I know right? I don't understand one bit. And it's not that people trust everybody, hell it seems like they trust no one. In my opinion it's just plain stupidity. Gullibility, maybe, but to me it's one and the same.

  21. carmello says:

    I clicked on it and when it went to the next page instead of the Video or article I knew it was no good. I people went thru all the crap that they sent them on the they were dumb enough to get it they deserve it. The only thing dumber is if they asked for their Cell # and then charged them $10 a month! Yep keeps me in business. THanks "Dumbasses"!

  22. Guest says:

    I clicked on it but didn't "like". am i still at risk?

  23. Amy says:

    Seriously people do you think a "dead girl" made a Facebook page to say she committed suicide because her Dad (who probably pays for the service) posted something on her wall. Where has all the common sense gone? Are you so bored with your own lives that you'd fall for this scam ola?

  24. laura says:

    i am trying to delet the post but it says failed to do so over and over again ?

  25. Marty says:

    Not to scare munger but the main purpose of these "hoaxes" is to easily obtain profile and feed information from people who "like" these kind of pages.

    Then these hoaxers can simply access all your visible data (personal info, friend lists, photos, videos, comments) via the facebook app API and do what ever they want with it...

    Eventually there will be hundreds of sources of your information that will likely find it's way to the black market for $1 per 1000 records.

    Notice how facebook defaultly has no concept of privacy until YOU restrict your content. This is dangerous to anyone who has no idea about information security simply because it means everyone/thing you associate yourself with on facebook is able to see everything about you unless you have said otherwise in your privacy settings.

    It's worth noting that any information that IS given to people like these hoaxers has been freely given by you at YOUR request, this is how social network works, so if you value your privacy don't use these types facebook apps/pages or even social networking services....

  26. megumi song says:

    thanks for the info..good thing i checked it out before following the link...

  27. Kara Jade says:

    i didnt realise fb could have this sort of things

  28. Becky says:

    If u like somthing like this can u get hakked??

  29. I clicked on it but nothing happend.

  30. c.mcadams9913 says:

    Well generally when I see crap like that posted I say to myself, " If it is such a big story, why wasn't it on the news tonight?" I know it's a crock of crap. Just like the, " I will never eat McDonalds again" crap. I wish people would get a life and stop trying to make money by screwing up peoples computers....

  31. Jess says:

    When I clicked on the link posted on a friends wall for one of these, I saw that you had to like it and give it access to a lot of unnecessary information to use it. Then I saw you had to do a survey to access the content. So I reported the application as SPAM. Will this do any good towards getting it removed?

  32. samantha says:

    i clicked as well and did those surveys..had to put my cell number and like an idiot i did 3 times...whats going to happen now?

  33. triana says:

    you need to change your password...and not click on any type of these links anymore....oh and make sure you run your antivirus software....i know that should seem obvious..but....................................

  34. guest2048 says:

    I have clicked on a similar post that said "click here to see the status update that got a girl expelled from school" after a friend posted it to my wall. It sent the link to everyone of my friends with a message saying "ha ha she is so busted" that I couldn't delete. A couple days later my account was hacked.

  35. Graze says:

    Why would anybody in their morbid mine be sooooo curious to find out more information? This is the reason why scams, and viruses spread so quickly around the internet. This is why people get hurt and this is why computers get fried. Grow up!

  36. rihana says:

    lmao...is this rlly serious?...my sister-in-law just clicked it...

    • I also clicked on it. It was posted in the info area of a fb friend. Like it was her own link. Anyhow, facebook has blocked it. It will not allow anyone to connect to it. And it doesn't leave a virus. Only way to get a virus is by executing a program onto your computer.

      Have a good anti-virus program and firewall and you shouldn't have much of a problem. If you have a mac, you wont ever get attacked. I use Norton and it blocks everything it's supposed to. Also, firefox browser is the safest you can use and will also block bad sites..

  37. marrihane tiffany says:

    yes.. this should be post at facebook. so people,( especially here in the philippines who were found of liking those pictures or articles that will come out in each pages) will be alarm!!!

  38. I clicked like an the had me chose from a quiz an when I finish they still didn't let me see the post

  39. Caroline says:

    If you clicked on the link and think you could possibly have a virus, then I'd do a virus check with your computer. I have received viruses from Facebook.

  40. Grammar Police says:

    Maximise? Really?

  41. Is there really a girl that killed herself on xmas eve? If there is can you tell me what happened? I already took the survey and I'm afraid the post will keep coming back. It does! What should I do? Please answer both questions. Please!

  42. Christine Nisnisan says:

    I clicked on that page but it did not open..Good for me!haha..

  43. andrew says:

    i have been doing the survey and now the page is written happening now
    what should i do now....?????????
    please give me advice.... thank you

  44. bri says:

    i jus went thru that whole thing and gave my cell number and my email what do i do!!!

  45. Rex says:

    I know its a hoax but I still want to hear the story on that, a girl killed her self over a facebook post by her father? Thats pretty sad. Even if it is fake, made up or exagerated.

  46. xXjejemerzXx says:

    thanks for the info sir.. i almost had to click it...

  47. manabrau says:

    if you're concerned if something is legitimate, people should try searching for that particular "headline" string on google and see what comes up ... for this one, "Girl killed herself, after her dad posted This to her Wall" a lot of the first ten hits mention "hoax" or "warning" or "scam" .. these are great indicators that you probably want to avoid that page. ^_^

  48. Jess says:

    I clicked on my friends link, and it asked me to "allow" certain information, then it asked me to take a survey to prove I'm at least 16 years of age due to certain content, I did click on a survey to take, but didn't take it because I figured it might be a scam. I "x'd" out of it immediately, and said to heck with it. Do you think I'm okay? I haven't had any trouble AS OF NOW, but it was only like 30 minutes ago...

    Jess

    • Check your profile to see if any messages have been posted from your account promoting the scam further to your friends. Also, check your list of applications (as described in the article) to see if you need to revoke permissions for anything, so they can no longer access your account or make postings up there.

  49. julie says:

    oh i clicked on it too but i didn't accept anything ...this is office computer please help me i hope id idn't get virus

  50. Me who else says:

    Why on earth would you want to even look at these links even if not spam?

  51. sharon says:

    So what IS the actual story?

  52. Smrtrthntheavgusr says:

    well 1 thing is certain for you Graham, job security. until we internet users as a whole gain enough sense to know what is what and what isn't.

  53. Tracy says:

    If I'm not mistaken, the photo is of a girl who committed suicide after a neighborhood mother pretended to be a teenage boy and tricked this poor young lady into thinking she had a boyfriend. Then, still posing as the boyfriend, broke up with her and said very mean things to her. This is what caused her to kill herself. This was all a couple of years ago, and I think the mother ended up getting little more than a slap on the wrist.

  54. Zal says:

    This is just a mean trick to get money.
    The message is attractive, so one is curious.
    But with each click or view the person that posted this gets money per click.

  55. yea i took a survey and put in my number. but its disconnected right now but im get it back soon with the same number i put in the survey but i did all the stuff u wrote wat happens now?

  56. Eddy says:

    I clicked on it but saw it was a hoax and then to avoid survey shut down windows had to force restart but it came up on my wall anyway, then I followed your advice but it wont go.

  57. King wax hood says:

    Well, i think the truth is being said: "let's educate the
    lot!"

  58. noobscammers says:

    I cant believe scammers would use HER for a scam!! Thats pretty damn heartless!!!

  59. These scammers really piss me off! No respect for the girl!> :(

  60. Yeshi Lhamo says:

    I think its all fake! Reply if ya agree

  61. Ziva says:

    I know it was all fake but i would realy like to know what the story side. Can sombody please tell me.

  62. Michelle says:

    Everytime i go on facebook my friends post one of the things on my wall i click on it and then i leave it my friend wont listen to me when i tell them its a scam and they keep doing it i need some professional to tell them its a scam!!!

  63. AJSD says:

    I can't believe people are actually clicking on a link that says "This girl killed herself".. How sick are yous!!?? Actually disgusting behaviour.

  64. Wanda says:

    Hi Graham, I too click it and got sent to a survey which DID NOT complete, I got to the part where they wanted my email, phone#, home address and name. I exited out of it so am I still at risk? I don't have anything that I can find that refers to that link. Like I said as soon as I saw that they wanted my home info and about the 3rd party stuff I quit the survey. Am I ok? Thanks in advance.

  65. charlotte says:

    i did it on my mums all the survey.. to my mums adress sayin i could win tickets to thorpepark.. what does this mean??????? i removed it from profile will it be ok?? wb pls!

  66. traJulio says:

    My mom clicked the link and it posted to her profile, now she is unable to delete it! What should she do?

  67. J.R. LeMar says:

    I just saw this one a friend status, and when I clicked to check it out I saw that it was an app. So I looked this up online before I went any further.

  68. TechStriker says:

    I have received a same kind of message in which the link takes us to a Facebook App.

  69. mimie says:

    i did allow but i didn't like the page... is my comp now on risk to have those scam..???

  70. Helen Martin says:

    i need help because i already took the survey and sent in details and i dotn know what to do because im not sure if i will get hacked or not so what do i do if i already took the survey as i never knew itr was a hoax:S please help:(

  71. HELP! says:

    hey mine keeps sending to everyone on chat can you help me please!!!

  72. Ive got a question...i realised that i authomatically liked 2 scam pages without confirming but now when i click on them it takes me to error 404...so i cant unlike them by clicking "unlike" on the actual page.
    Is there a chance to remove it from my likes and interest??
    Thanks :)

  73. J Ordegard says:

    I think we should leave the scammers be. This helps us identify and weed out the idiots and keep them off of the internet.

  74. corina says:

    i may have accidently completed survey- does this mean that i am paying?

  75. Minnie says:

    I saw this post and thought it was terrible. But I didn't go and click like or anything because I was feeling a bit suspicious today. So I copy and pasted into google, and you were the first result. Thank God I read this first, because now I can follow your video advice and get rid of all the other scams I've so naively fallen for. Thank you so much, you have no idea what a help you are!! :)

  76. Sucker says:

    My mom almost clicked on the adds but she aid just to look it up on google and we found this on google good thing we didn't do the survey i just got this laptop on christmas and she was using it. tht was close

  77. That-Girl says:

    Teenagers Need Privacy!!!!!

  78. paul says:

    i closed my FB account last weekend after 5 years... im sick of it. Between scammers, hoaxer, bullies and all driven by advertisers who will do anything for 'likes'... im sick of people [posting pics of dying children without permission and leading others to believe that clicking will somehow provide cash or help to child._Now online gambling is the next step for facebook, they will help to breed a generation of gambling addict and all the associated problems..._Their data ploicies and security suck, once FB became a mutinational trading business it started its downward spiral which will accellerate in the race to the bottom._

  79. kayla says:

    i clicked on it by mistake and it took me to a new page with a video that couldn't load so i exited out of it right away but it showed up in my recent activity under likes and won't let me delete it. what do i do? why won't it let me delete it?

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